17 April 2013
Posted in Five on 5
This inrages me, because I am dealing with DHS and not having my kid becuse of "Neglect," they never talked to any neighbors, or anyone who has been there with me, or even healthy start, who came out once a wk. No they took her because someone called and lied saying I gave my two yr. pot, I told them give her a u.a then. and since 2010 I've been jumping through hoops like a dog, 4case workers, and a bunch of lies. Maybe if we really took the time to re-evaluate which children really need to be removed, and which familys just need someone to care and help, cause for whatever reason life isn't going so well. I'm not innocent, either, I have a drug addiction, I have a yr on the 28th, but still I don't have my child, in 3yrs, I have spents 3052hrs with her. I never even spanked my daughter, she has always been my #1 consern, but because I smoked pot, to relax after I put her to sleep, not OK, but I guess I should have drank, mayber have a hangover be irritated, instead, cause that would be ok. To help these families, and keep kid that don't need to be in foster care, so one's that do can have a place to be, we need to better look and how people use DHS, a ex who is angry lies, the don't investagate they come and take the kid. I needed help yes, but all this has done has hurt my family in more ways then helping, I'm not encouraged to go back to school like I want to, I'm told that that doesn't matter, nor having a job, just that I wast tax payers money on A&D treatment with my OHP. After I have already graduated the best program in the valley the ARC, I've tried ontrack an joke, mom's program, laughable, Kolpia with Al, god rest his soul, yes, but now being asked after 6mon. out of treatment,to go back, for what reason? I do JCMH, then to hear her spout of 810 cases, How many were investagated, how many were ppl abusing the system for revenge? or because the fight for custody, and then how many are lost because DHS is tied up over worked, keeping cases alive that don't really need to be, using resources that could go to that child down the street who see ppl come and go all hr. mom or dad frantic cause no pills, or the child who is 10 and takes the abuse so his siblings don't.
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